The first thing is to go with your intuition. It seems a lot about your relationship does not add up to? What he is spending time with you? He is available to you for most of his free time? If you've never been to his home, and he seems only able to carve a few hours a week for you, it is time to be asking yourself, "Is he married?"
Note that a married man to have spent a reasonable explanation for the time after his wife and has to spend a whole lot of time with his wife. Beware of people who only see you a couple of hours a week, especially if he is very particular about those hours. If he is able to see you for drinks after work, but not for a late dinner, be careful. It may be that he has a wife to go home and tell her that he has to work late. What if he can see only that one night a week? This is a strong indication that it's time for someone with a different account - said he can to his wife that night he goes for a boy. Another suspicious character, he is not able to sleep over. If any of these applications, you really need to ask yourself, "Is he married?"
A big red flag is not been in his place or meet with any of his family. Of course, if you are on your second day, it is not natural to have met the family, but for a few months if you've been dating, you should have met someone else in his life and were able to visit and stay at him at home. When your friends start asking, "Why have you not been to his house, he is married?" then you really should take steps to look into it.
Naturally suspicious behavior is not a clear sign that something is wrong, but if your gut is telling you something is wrong, take action to protect themselves. Make a list of how you think you would spend his time if he were married, and check it against what he says, he spends his day. It seems that gaps in his schedule, which can be explained by the question, "Is he married?" Does it look as if he is accountable to someone else for his time? Try to get some back story to his friends and colleagues or acquaintances in common. If you are really concerned, you can consult a private investigator. A cheaper solution is to check the web - there are websites available to run searches for you and are less expensive than private investigator.
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